Michael

Everyone knows the old saying, “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.” I do not accept this statement as fact. It negatively implies that as we get older we can’t change or learn something new. It’s an excuse both for the teacher and the potential student. We always have a choice to change directions, learn something new or become something different. Remember that the old dog saying is not referring to age. It refers to our rigidity of mind and thought. We can be “old dogs” at any age.

“Old dogs” must have a strong willingness and desire to change or learn something new. “Old dogs” must cultivate openness towards new things. “Old dogs” must utilize persistence and patience. “Old dogs” must believe that they can change. Teachers or mentors of old dogs, surprisingly enough, must develop and possess the same skills that “old dogs” need to change.

So, ask yourself the following questions:

• What beliefs do I have “old dog” mentality with?
• What routines can I break out of to try a different approach?
• What foods must I eat everyday? Can you add a new food or recipe to your diet once a week?
• What hobby have I always wanted to learn but were afraid because of ………?
• What stereotypes of people do I hold onto?
• What negative behaviors in relationships do I exhibit and would like to change?
• Is my way of doing something the only way or the “right” way?

If you can answer the above questions honestly, you will have a great start on becoming a “new dog.” By the way, new dogs have more fun and tend to be happier.

Have a blessed day.

Michael