Subscribe in a readerGoing With the Flow - Part 1
I really like the analogy of “Going With the Flow.” Do you find this concept difficult in practice? I have in the past and sometimes I still struggle with this. But, I can say from experience, when you are going with the flow it is a wonderful feeling!
Abraham uses this analogy frequently. Imagine yourself facing a fast moving stream. You place your canoe in the water, point it upstream and start paddling as hard as you can. You can sustain this effort for some time. In fact, people will notice how hard you are working and applaud you for your efforts. Of course, this gives you encouragement and you continue to paddle fervently upstream. But it’s really hard. Successes happen only with tremendous effort. You never have a break. It’s a constant struggle.
The other choice is to point your canoe downstream and let the current take you. As you see obstacles ahead, you make very small adjustments in your direction to avoid them. You notice how little effort this is requiring. It almost seems wrong that you are not having to work hard. You are actually having fun, enjoying the scenery and focusing on the journey. Successes come frequently and easily. People will start frowning at you since you don’t seem to have to work very hard. They will call you lucky and try to justify it their minds. But you know that it is simply because you are letting go and allowing life to unfold before you based on your desire.
Think about your choices. Do you want to paddle upstream or let the downstream current take you where you want to go?
Tomorrow I’ll talk about some simple techniques to start shifting your life from an upstream struggle to a downstream vacation.
Have a great day!
Michael
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