Lessons From China
As we drove to the Beijing airport for our long flight back to the U.S., Grace, our tour guide, told us a lesson that she had been taught by her mother. To set the reason for the story, I must briefly describe a short incident that happened on Monday, May 28th. The Beijing Capitol City Museum was closed on that day. So, Grace, being the adaptable tour guide, made some suggestions on how to change our itinerary and still meet all of the items on our contracted travel to-do list. Well, a number of our group started to react quite vocally, splitting us into numerous “factions.” It was quite interesting to watch this total breakdown. Finally, after much discussion in Chinese and English, an agreement was crafted. The total time to a compromise was about an hour.
Grace recovered quickly, which is a testament to her ability to adapt and move pass a difficult situation. Today, on the bus, Grace recounted her mother’s lesson.
If you have a bad experience, leave it behind you. Focus your attention on your happy experiences.
This simple, but deeply wise philosophy holds critical keys to being happier. I loved the fact that as I personally search for keys to happiness, I find them everywhere, regardless of what country I’m in. Fundamentally, we are all made of the same stuff and want to live happy, productive lives.
The Chinese are an amazing people with thousands of years of history, a rich mythology with colorful legends and a great desire to make connections with the rest of the world. I found them to be warm, open, insatiably curious, possessing a strong desire to interact with foreigners, a fantastic sense of humor and a great willingness to do their best. Many wanted to practice their English with us no matter how much they knew. They just wanted to interact.
I’m so glad that I went on this trip. It was special from the beginning and always will be.
Have a great day.
Michael

After a quick trip to the
The Chinese gentleman told me that the ring was very difficult to photograph. The lighting was low and designed to bring out the translucence of the jade without throwing too much light around. Also, a tripod was needed because of the low light, but tripods were not allowed in the museum. So, I pointed my Canon camera and took the shot. He immediately wanted to look at what I had taken. I showed him and he stepped back and smiled with approval. As we parted, I thanked him for showing me around. I walked away watching him taking photos from the angle that I had been shooting from.
Our final full day in Beijing began at the 726 acre
Our tour of Hutong (Old Beijing) was on bicycle rickshaws. We wound in and out of the narrow alleyways and got a taste of what it’s like to live there. It was actually quiet as we were away from the hustle and bustle of buses and cars. After a fantastic lunch at the Sichuan Restaurant we met with a lady named Mrs. Luo who opened her home to us and gave a tour of the quadrangle that she and two other families shared.
Today started with a slight change of plans. The Beijing Capitol Museum was closed so we went right to the
After a western buffet lunch (Chinese style), our group split up. Five of us went to visit
We started our day at a state owned jade factory called Run De Jade Garden of Beijing. The tour taught us the many different forms and grades of jade. We also got a first hand view of artisans at work carving jade statues and figurines. The pieces were exquisite. I became quite fond of a small intricately carved dragon of translucent green jade called xiu yan jade.
The May 21st issue of The New Yorker has a nice piece called “The Great Wall Mystery” and was written by Peter Hessler. The New Yorker website has a short
The statue to the left can be found in The Hall of Eminent Favor. It was quite impressive. Chang Ling is one of the two tombs that have been excavated. Inside The Hall of Eminent Favor were many excavated items including ornate headdresses, clothing, armor and etc.
Another exhausting day in Beijing. It was the good kind of exhaustion. You know the feeling when you’ve packed several days of vacation work into one day and then went a little bit further.
The Imperial Vault of Heaven (see photo to the right) within the Echo Wall is connected to The Hall of Prayer for Good Harvest by the Sacred Way or Danbi Bridge. This is the walkway that the Emperor took to reach the Hall of Prayer for Good Harvest.
At the end of the afternoon we went to the Silk Market which was a nine story building comprised of seemingly hundreds of stores that sell absolutely everything. You can find all the faux items here; purses, luggage, DVDs, electronics, jewelry, clothing, toys, shoes, silk, etc. I was particularly attracted to some jade carvings. You have to bargain hard or you will pay very high prices if you are not careful. It was great fun.
Wow! I had an incredible first full day in
Deep inside the city we visited the offices and bedrooms of the emperor, empress and the emperor’s concubines. There was a quartz crystal outside the emperor’s bedroom that was huge. It symbolizes frankness, loyalty and purity and weighed several hundred pounds.